You can play whatever role you wish.  Is that not what you are doing now?  “But I do not like this role I am playing,” you say, and we reply, then, choose one that best suits your awareness in this moment, that best serves the growth of the soul and of the whole, and play it to the hilt.  You need not tell others that you are changing your role.  Perhaps they will notice, and perhaps not, but you will notice the difference.  “I no longer choose to play the victim” is one you may wish to try on for a while.  Or “I am no longer powerless, but a beautiful light” is another.  Do you understand us now?  You get to choose, and that is the beauty of being a co-creator with the Creator.  You are far from powerless, and the more you come to know this by exercising your freedom to choose, the more you will come to know what true freedom is.