You may think you are allowing, for that is what you are advised to do to experience peace. And yet, if you tune in to the body, you will find tension. And if you follow that tension back to its origins, you will likely find thoughts which say, "This is not supposed to happen this way!" Or "I want, I need, they shouldn't," and so on and on and on. Allowing does not mean that you condone poor behavior. It means that you accept what is happening at the moment and with conscious neutrality, ask, "What is the best next step?" The answer may require a pivot.

You are so very loved.