There are certain behaviors you exhibit that you instantly recognize, for "you sound just like your mother" (or perhaps your father). This is to be expected due to what you may come to understand as "field effects." You see this in other close relationships where you "pick up" certain traits, manners of speaking, thinking, acting, and so on. This is called "entrainment." And what of those behaviors you no longer wish to exhibit? Awareness of when they occur is the first step. If you desire, you can reprogram your reactions by changing your own behavior with regularity. It is all energy, and as you may have heard, energy can be transformed. With awareness comes choice and the question, "How committed are you to change?"
You are so very loved.
Very interesting